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" I have found that you can meet amazing people anywhere and at any age. So many people listen to their friends or the monkey chatter in their own head telling them all the obstacles that stand in their way as a single woman over the age of 35. I don't listen to friends like this, because I find that many singles have attitudes that are just ridiculous.They love to buy into the negative, instead of the positive.It was at a bar, and when she asked his occupation he replied, “I work for the city.” She took that to mean he was a construction worker. Much to her surprise about a month into their relationship, she learned he actually played for the NFL team in their city. And then, if someone is bleeding, expect to hear, “No worries, all bleeding stops.” Because it really is true, all bleeding does stop, and we understand this.
We have to engender trust from strangers, which requires a good “bedside manner”, ie a good personality! We don’t expect limos and hot air balloons on dates. We take care of sick people, we have witnessed the moments that Death has come to take our patients away, and we have comforted those left behind.
I just think that you've been frustrated, and you've let that get to you. Sure enough, after two and-a-half months she did meet a doctor. : Now that we've talked about your mindset, had you do some research and even had you make a list, the only thing left to do is to actually get yourself out there and start meeting people.
It's all about pursuing what you want and taking the steps to get it.
In other words, when the s&%^ is hitting the fan, who do you want next to you, being your partner, and getting you through the hard times? Whether it is gaining admittance into medical school, suffering through Histology, placing into a residency, or working for 30 hours straight without sleep, we know what hard work looks like, because we have done it. Your in-laws have stayed too long, the baby is screaming, the cable is out, the game is on, and who knows what your firstborn is doing, wait, why is there water coming from underneath the bathroom door? You should appreciate that we can help our family and will always have a job. If you lose your job or become disabled or want to go back to school, you won’t have to worry about how your family will eat or be clothed.
Someone once gave me the advice to marry the person you want to be in the trenches with. If you can’t understand the benefits of being married to an intelligent woman, then I can’t help you. Although, for real, pick up your damn underwear 🙂 Mc Hotties rule!
Kathleen Colduvell RN, BSN, BA, CBC graduated with a degree in English and journalism before going back to nursing school.